Redondo Beach Matchmakers | 5 Signs a Couple is Doomed

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For many couples out there, the road of a relationship will eventually come to a disappointing end, the point where they have to break up. As Redondo Beach matchmakers, we know this is hard to accept.

When this point comes, it’s perfectly natural to wonder how to know when to break up. After all, ending a relationship too early can leave you wallowing in regret and wondering if you could have done something to change the outcome.

No one can truly tell you when your relationship is over. You are the only person that can make this decision.

To help you out, our Redondo Beach matchmakers are going to reveal the top five warning signs a relationship is doomed.

1. They’re selfish.

As strange as it may seem, sometimes it’s really hard to see when someone is actually being selfish. There are a few telltale signs to look for, such as a partner who doesn’t bother asking for your opinion and takes it upon themselves to make all the decisions in the relationship. This can definitely be frustrating for one partner. If your partner seems to be all about themselves and cares far less about you, the relationship is over. You can’t be in a one-sided, selfish relationship that leaves you feeling down all the time.

2. There are rarely any gifts.

Gifts are not the deciding factor of a relationship, and they never will be. That being said, the total lack of gifts, even something as simple as a chocolate from the store, can be a bad sign. While it may be normal to stay away from regular gift-giving, it definitely says something when your partner doesn’t give you a gift on a special day such as your birthday. Unless it’s due to a religious or financial issue, the lack of gifts can sometimes indicate that your partner doesn’t love you anymore.

However, the exception to this rule is if they were never one to give gifts in the relationship.

3. They are not interested in your friends.

If your partner can’t be bother to bring you around his friends, and if they have absolutely no interest in your friends either, then that’s a huge problem for your relationship. When someone doesn’t want to be a bigger presence in your life, which is to say they don’t want to be introduced to your friends or meet your family, it can be assumed that they aren’t interested in the relationship. They don’t want to put in the effort to get to know the people you love. Why? Perhaps because they already know things aren’t going to go anywhere and that this relationship won’t last for long.

4. Everything was a whirlwind.

Romance can absolutely stem from nothing more than a quick smile from across the bar – and relationships blossoming from this type of situation can also be successful. But that isn’t always the case.

While it might feel real in the moment, sometimes these whirlwind romances are just a passing fling where there is a physical connection. When passions run high, the longevity of the relationship can sometimes suffer, making whirlwind romance one of the most unsuccessful of all romantic connections to have.

5. They don’t make time for you.

Everyone is busy today. But when you love and care about someone, you do what you can to make time for them. If your partner has stopped making efforts to spend time with you, something is up. This is especially true if they have time to spend with their friends all the time over you – or if they spend hours upon hours in the gym every night over spending time with you.

Tired of dating people who don’t know how to manage a relationship? Contact our Redondo Beach matchmakers today and let us help. Let us introduce you to quality singles in Los Angeles who are fit to date and ready for the real deal in love.

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